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Post by Admin on Aug 23, 2023 13:00:32 GMT
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Post by Admin on Aug 23, 2023 13:18:07 GMT
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Post by kueifei on Aug 23, 2023 14:43:03 GMT
More waiting. More waiting around in her royal harem; the only thing that differentiates her from being a concubine is the fact that she has a wedding ring on her finger. |
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Post by Admin on Aug 23, 2023 15:52:17 GMT
More waiting. More waiting around in her royal harem; the only thing that differentiates her from being a concubine is the fact that she has a wedding ring on her finger. It takes so little to please her fans and if she is what a model future queen should be then allow me some time to hurl. |
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Post by india on Aug 23, 2023 16:32:01 GMT
She's one mean looking evil thing.
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Post by kueifei on Aug 23, 2023 19:20:18 GMT
She's one mean looking evil thing. She looks positively soggy. Utterly soggy; her filthy past is fixing on her looks and she is showing what she chose to do to herself to get that ring. |
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Post by sanka on Aug 24, 2023 7:23:28 GMT
She looks very mean and he has a look of arrogance that appears as though everything and everyone is beneath him. It is not a photo that shows strength in the future monarchy.
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Post by kueifei on Aug 24, 2023 13:02:19 GMT
She looks very mean and he has a look of arrogance that appears as though everything and everyone is beneath him. It is not a photo that shows strength in the future monarchy. William had a chance at landing a great young woman when he was younger, but he threw it away by not making anything of himself and he wouldn't stick with his own kind or at least run with good people who had lives of their own and then he flouted the courtiers who worked hard to set up a great life for him. He threw the rule book away while young and wouldn't see how times had changed. The genuinely decent ones were out there establishing themselves in the workforce and second, William bought into the belief that a royal consort should be as useless as possible and put up with his emotional and psychological negligence and at other times his abusiveness. His father aside, his mother did not train him well through example that he would know how to behave and not take people for granted (i.e. expecting them not to have a life of their own, expecting them to drop everything in favor of him) and his mother would not put him in his place. What should frighten him is how far along he is and has nothing to offer a woman that would inspire her to walk away from whatever it is that she has going on in her life.
Monarchies have no future. They have no future at all. Let's not kid ourselves; even if William were to remarry a good enough type, right now his marriage is all he has left that gives him a focus of stability. He can't afford a divorce since he can't realistically attract anyone decent. Who would have him? It's not just his age, but his lack of anything that resembles any kind of life that he could possibly offer. He has nothing to offer. Any woman coming out of her profession at this stage of her life will want to have less stress, not even more stress of having to shore of William's numerous failings and also work to ingratiate herself into the British way of life. It would mean starting largely from scratch and few women near or at middle age have the energy and stamina for that kind of stress in their lives. William does not offer much that would in fact bring a woman anything that would make HER self sacrifices worth it. Money, women are able to make almost as much as they want; status, easily earned in a great many ways; security, women are generating that all the time with their own progress in the work force and as for luxury, that is increasingly obtainable.
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Post by Admin on Aug 24, 2023 13:18:23 GMT
I trust everybody will keep this thread going for the next few weeks. I will be checking in, of course, but may not be able to post too many items.  Best regards, All, and keep up the good work! Admin |
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Post by kueifei on Aug 24, 2023 15:16:34 GMT
I trust everybody will keep this thread going for the next few weeks. I will be checking in, of course, but may not be able to post too many items. Best regards, All, and keep up the good work! Admin Bunny muffin, angel cake, pumpkin pie, you can't walk out on us! I fell in love with you, we fell in love with you, and now you just want to walk out!? I'll keep the lights and threads burning! |
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Post by Admin on Aug 25, 2023 3:08:52 GMT
I trust everybody will keep this thread going for the next few weeks. I will be checking in, of course, but may not be able to post too many items. Best regards, All, and keep up the good work! Admin Bunny muffin, angel cake, pumpkin pie, you can't walk out on us! I fell in love with you, we fell in love with you, and now you just want to walk out!? I'll keep the lights and threads burning! Im not leaving, lol - going on vacay plus a royal research trip but will have my trusty little cell with me, still. Working 12 hour days and just about to leave in a couple of days. Bunny muffin? I like that. Hehehe. |
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Post by kueifei on Aug 25, 2023 18:43:26 GMT
I sometimes wonder how my father's generation in fact justifies this kind of worthlessness. I think my father's generation in fact ties in mor@lity with financial status, that is, the more money you have, the more you can claim mor@l protection. It would explain this psychotic addiction to keeping up appearances and keeping up a certain lifestyle even when it is covering a horrific amount of debt. I also think Kate is on borrowed time but it is clear that William is oddly wavering in his decision to toss Kate and her family out of his life. What makes me mystified, is how she is running out of steam and even the press can't help her anymore. It's like watching the  -tale come true, but now it is clear that reality is setting in and Kate's time on easy street is about to come to an evicted end because she hasn't been paying the toll either before she got on easy street or she hasn't paid dues. |
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Post by sanka on Aug 26, 2023 3:36:12 GMT
^ I can see William waiting for some time before he actually decides to end the marriage. He may be waiting on finding someone who would be willing to put up with him (and that will be difficult). Also, he may be waiting to see what happens when Harry divorces MM to see how much he may have to pay in a settlement. I think William would want to pay as little as possible even though he has spent most of his adult life with Kate.
Maybe KC III has told him to wait for a while to avoid more family drama. KC was quick in the decision to give William the title of Prince of Wales. I expected that it may have taken longer but was announced so quickly after HM's death. Maybe it was pressure from William to his father to announce it quickly.
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Post by kueifei on Aug 26, 2023 5:09:38 GMT
^ I can see William waiting for some time before he actually decides to end the marriage. He may be waiting on finding someone who would be willing to put up with him (and that will be difficult). Also, he may be waiting to see what happens when Harry divorces MM to see how much he may have to pay in a settlement. I think William would want to pay as little as possible even though he has spent most of his adult life with Kate. Maybe KC III has told him to wait for a while to avoid more family drama. KC was quick in the decision to give William the title of Prince of Wales. I expected that it may have taken longer but was announced so quickly after HM's death. Maybe it was pressure from William to his father to announce it quickly. I think William is in fact Prince of Wales, but the Welsh Council will not have him, nor the people of Wales want him and he has no bond with them. He has nothing to back his new station in life and I think King Charles is in fact unsure about how to endorse another divorce. Point blank, WK are in their own messed up way a focus of stability by remaining married and a fresh divorce, would mean a MAJOR overhaul of diplomatic and political paperwork and it would mean yet another ex-consort running amok with a courtesy title and quite frankly, there is no guarantee that it would mean a stable situation. Right now people are used to Kate, used to her profile and if the kids are not qualified for the Throne, that would mean that not only would the backlash become the equivalent of a nuclear explosion, the aftereffect would be like residual radiation poisoning. William cannot just make his nation wait another decade while his kids from his new consort grow up and as much as I loathe Kate, I want to make it clear that she has been around for so long that people are used to her and know her well. Kate is a complete and utter failure, but she has no wish to walk out on her marriage or her nation. That is a huge plus ironically. No one wants another divorce and no one wants a new, unknown consort.
If William has a mistress sequestered away, then that would mean that another mistress becomes a wife and the UK has to deal with this new round of degradation and even more doors slamming in his face, making it harder for his nation to get jobs and alliances. NO ONE wants another mistress as a legitimized consort. You can't romanticize adultery and William will lose more and have even more setbacks. William does not see that marrying a mistress would shut doors on him since no political wife would tolerate receiving the mistress of all women. William for lack of a better way of putting it cannot leave Kate without destabilizing an already unstable upper class.
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Post by india on Sept 11, 2023 14:35:36 GMT
Also, coldness is a trait that women with Asperger’s suffer with. I think that Kate’s behavior with Meghan and Harry stems from a social awkwardness that she always had (hence needing to stick with big important Willy all the time) being so uncomfortable with herself and roots, and she didn’t know how to deal with Meghan, but the awkwardness in their photos together says a lot. Meghan appears more social and laid back. Kate’s animosity toward her is more because of potential Asperger’s and struggle with relating to others than sheer meanness. Kate also isn’t known to have any friends and they seem to take advantage of her by spilling beans on her (Tatler) the kind of problems people on spectrum tend to experience more than someone who is not. I think it’s really important we try to investigate this link because autism is on the rise everywhere, wasn’t even diagnosed much before the 1980s, and can cause a lot of destruction in society by people of power or in personal relationships (misninderstsndings, etc) and it really answers a lot of questions I have about her. Kate is just a flat out jealous mean b*tch. Period. |
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Post by kueifei on Sept 11, 2023 15:03:19 GMT
Also, coldness is a trait that women with Asperger’s suffer with. I think that Kate’s behavior with Meghan and Harry stems from a social awkwardness that she always had (hence needing to stick with big important Willy all the time) being so uncomfortable with herself and roots, and she didn’t know how to deal with Meghan, but the awkwardness in their photos together says a lot. Meghan appears more social and laid back. Kate’s animosity toward her is more because of potential Asperger’s and struggle with relating to others than sheer meanness. Kate also isn’t known to have any friends and they seem to take advantage of her by spilling beans on her (Tatler) the kind of problems people on spectrum tend to experience more than someone who is not. I think it’s really important we try to investigate this link because autism is on the rise everywhere, wasn’t even diagnosed much before the 1980s, and can cause a lot of destruction in society by people of power or in personal relationships (misunderstanding, etc) and it really answers a lot of questions I have about her. I do not think it is that particular kind of mental illness, if there is any, but I would have to suggest that she has serious issues that are a result of not so much her upbringing, but her choices during the most decisive years, her formative years (20's) and it would explain why during her thirties her marriage, she wasn't able to straighten herself out behavior@lly. I never thought I would say this, but she is a reminder of myself before I took SERIOUS steps to focus on my healthy development. It's not like she didn't have choices or freedom. I think that is why Kate fascinates me, we are somewhat two sides of the same coin.
www.merckmanuals.com/home/mental-health-disorders/paraphilias-and-paraphilic-disorders/exhibitionistic-disorderIt would explain why she no longer works at all really and why she wears such bulky, heavy clothing in public and why she isn't really going out much. She is better controlled and it would explain why William leaves her behind socially. I think William can't cope anymore and I speak from empathy that if I had made a lot of the same choices, she would have been just like me. Unlike her I would have not married a prince, but I would have ended up with a bad life. I believe she was excused as doing university wilding, but later on of course, people did ask questions. It would explain why she wouldn't get a job or couldn't keep her job except for a very low level and why William wouldn't take her to decent places. If she had autism she would have been spotted out and there would not have been a marriage.
I also think that she was psycho-sexualized at a young age and I believe that she manifested it by using her body to land and keep William and I believe she is not at a point where she really has any kind of sexuality left. I think she used her sexuality to get that ring and also most importantly, has been behaving as if she's royal by adoption and as a result, behaves as if she doesn't have to earn her keep. She behaves as if she is a member of the BRF by adoption and as a result, is not comprehending that the Windsors are not her real family, they are not her real family that is obligated to look after her and her interests. She has no real understanding that the BRF is slowly disengaging her. Her life isn't stabilizing and she isn't getting what she wants, she is just a handful of steps to being thrown out. Kind of like the quiet before an explosion.
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Post by kueifei on Sept 11, 2023 21:06:57 GMT
‘She has no real understanding that the BRF is slowly disengaging her.’ Bingo. That is one reason I tend to think she has not only the social awkwardness but bad social judgment (Asperger’s) but the exhibitinism you cited also fits, and seems quite the opposite of an issue for one person to have. However, she could have traits of both disorders. Sometimes when a child doesn’t get proper support with one issue, they accomadate so much so as to fit in that they actually end up sticking out (exhibitionism.) I believe she has both traits, but many psychologists talking about these personality disorder would acknowledge that many of these mental health issues overlap (bipolar, borderline, depression, anxiety, narcissism, autism) are all abnormalities that can overlap within one person that had maybe one to begin with. I don’t think Kate’s family knew or wanted to support any of her issues because they had their eye on William and that became their purpose as a family, not being the best parents they can be. Kate had definitely been exploited, but she sure picked the wrong family to make up for any childhood losses.
If she had Asperbergs, she would be a lot worse off and unable to function in her old social set. Before her beginning with William, she was entirely ordinary and entirely nondescript. She was a woman who basically was like everyone else. She could not have Aspergers and I think the reason she can't behave well is because she does not belong around these people. She is surrounded by people who have been through more in life at an earlier age and I think she isn't unscarred by life, but she is not experienced in the way that William is, the way that Harry is, the way that the aristocracy is. Then there is the fact that she has an abnormal loathing of other women, but mainly women that she views as more 'privileged' than herself. She has been caught giving death stares to the princesses, being cruel to Beatrice, then proceeding to slander to the press every single female in the aristocracy. i think the reason there is a code of silence in regard to mistresses is because sometimes suspicions are wrong and I think public slander is something that should involve consequences.
When Kate isn't surrounded by the aristocracy or the royals she is meeting people who come from literally nothing and have made something of themselves that is truly extraordinary. Then there is the fact that she is surrounded by women who come from her background and basically make the utmost of it. Who moved up in their own right and took their freedom and rode it like no other. So really it has nothing to do with being clinically mentally ill, she just never willingly grew outward. She ended up growing inward and working on creating a new history, one of privilege and isolation similar to that of an American trust fund aristocrat at the turn of the 20th century. Regrettably like William she built the bonds of privilege instead of work. Kate can't cope in her role because K ate does not belong. She will never belong. Kate, like William, made several bad turns in her young adulthood and now she is in fact at a point where she no longer has any kind of real connection to anyone around her, not even her own husband.
If I were to diagnose her with anything it would be exhibitionism and it would be some kind of chronic depression. I think she thought William would adopt her out of her family and she would be cared for for life, like a lot of really messed up women. I speak as one of them, a woman who looked for a boyfriend to rescue her. do not think William will remain married to her and she might do what she did back in 2007 to find a new man, but realistically she is in fact too old for that. She has lost her looks, is not appealing, and running around clubs trying to land a man at her age is pathetic. The decent ones are taken and she is too notorious. I didn't think she would make it to Princess of Wales, but I was wrong, but William is likely trying to edge her carcass out. She is likely unaware that William can now in fact divorce her now that HME is gone and there is no real realistic way for her to prevent it. Even her children will not be able to protect her. I do not think she has any real concrete comprehension that sometimes when a man is complacent, it is because he has made his peace with ending his marriage.
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Post by kueifei on Sept 12, 2023 17:46:12 GMT
the thing that bothers me most about Kate is like you said, she doesn't believe the world exists without her. She just coasts along everywhere, along for a ride, doing absolutley nothing to deserve it. What pains me is seeing the hardworking people she visits that try to help make society better, all while acting holier than though like they needs to kiss her a##  For her to lift a finger to pretend to give a flying crap about them just making sure paparazzi are in the right place. She clearly hasn't worked on her interpersonal skills since getting married, and seeing her do the EXACT same song-and-dance with EVERY meet and greet she's been to is like watching a robot, it's mind-numbing. The vids pop up on my YT all the time for some reason. She's incapable of saying anything intelligent beyond "it's so rainy and windy out" or "I don't have a paticularly good singing voice!" like a broken record, devoid of feeling or true emotions regardless of what the function is or where she's at (memorial? same. Women's shelter? same. Local food pantry? same. Grocery store tour? Same) If this is what Britains look up to, I'm afraid for them. I can also tell based on her conversations that she has boundry issues and doesn't respect peoples' boundries when she speaks, like she doesn't care enough to bother getting a feel for a person (or child) before saying like "Here you can have my poppy, it represents all the soldiers who died in the war" or acting way too maternal around other mothers' childrens for a photo opp. She way oversteps respectable boundries but expcets people to cater to her half-a## efforts at 'connecting,'While she may seem pleasent enough, too many people 'ooo and ahh' at her and so the cycle continues of the dog and pony show. People should be smarter than this, it's why I can't really imagine living in Britain. Point blank, she is delusional enough to believe that William is just like her and she is just like William, therefore deserves to live his lifestyle. Uni is not for everyone and William never should have been allowed to go on some Roman Holiday and he has been on holiday ever since. She literally has no comprehension of the position she is in and hasn't grown at all, in fact she has regressed. The Brits might resent it, but the system is so entrenched. It's like the Plantation life of the Old South and it took CENTURIES for it to collapse. She has no sense of boundaries because she was badly raised. She also did not want to learn. There is also something missing in her, something off that is rendering her nonfunctional. She has struggles holding herself together. She reminds me of my old boyfriend, he lacked a lot of discipline and despite five years together, he ended up not at all growing or developing or solidifying and he also got more aggressive and obnoxious after he moved into a place of his own. While we were driving to a video store he was joyous and told me thank God we hadn't married because he would have wanted a divorce. That is what triggered the final stage of inner seething that led me to break up with him. Before I did that he floated the idea of breaking up and he talked about me being some honorary cousin to some bullshit. I was so pissed. It was me that kept pushing the delusion of marriage off and go figure, he wanted to end it once he moved into a place of his own. As Kate moved up she started becoming lazier, more dismissive of a support system that could have helped her and she did get way out of line so much I am amazed that she got away with it. She and her family were out of control and it took legal intervention to get Pippa to back off of Earl Percy. Then there is the fact that Kate just kept flouting HME and how she jetted around more than she went to her offices at KP. |
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Post by joni on Sept 12, 2023 21:21:37 GMT
I had no idea Pippa had legal trouble with a guy? Was it a restraining order?! Lmao. William may need to look into one once he divorces Kate! Both K and P are a nuisance it’s like they stalk photographers then complain their privacy is infringed upon
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Post by kueifei on Sept 13, 2023 13:39:43 GMT
I had no idea Pippa had legal trouble with a guy? Was it a restraining order?! Lmao. William may need to look into one once he divorces Kate! Both K and P are a nuisance it’s like they stalk photographers then complain their privacy is infringed upon i think the Percy family just took steps and had a lawyer order Pippa to back off. |
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